Recent dating guides I (happen to :p) read has one red thread (benang merah), which is: men are simple. There are no such thing as mixed signs. If it's mixed (to our mind) then most likely it only exists in our mind. Men are either yes or no, and it should be easy to tell.
But is it really so?
I have personal experience when somebody said I am not his type (twice, as a matter of fact), as a respond to my friend's initiative to ask him about me -since they knew I had a crush on him-, but since a wrong sms I accidentally sent to him, he finally changed his mind (or simply just opened to the truth that actually he liked me). Btw, this guy is Indonesian.
And then now, my roommate shoo-ed me to go out and respond to this Japanese guy's constant-cordial invitation, out of the reason that he might be actually courting me. I am not interested in having relationship with him, it's not the point here, but I'm interested to see where this is leading.
One of my friend said those books (movies including: He's just not that into you, and recently seen: Ugly Truth), are all made in America. And so it explains only American men's behaviors. Well, who actually knows :D
